relationships
BIG’s Blog: It’s Relationship (Re-posted with permission)
Monday, April 28, 2014
Fundraisers have always understood, as much as leadership or the board, that their organization needs supporters.
Yet over the last 15 to 20 years, a bothersome, and, some would even say “nagging,” issue has arisen that has many fundraisers puzzled.
The same successful messaging and fundraising methodologies that they have perfected throughout their careers are not engaging baby boomers, much less even younger generations.
Starting with the boomers but also extending to Gen-X and the Millennials, these younger cohorts ARE NOT ENGAGING with many long-standing, established organizations.
Why?
Nilofer Merchant in her 2013 book, 11 Rules For Creating Value In The Social Era, seems to nail it when she writes, “If people give to a cause (mission or ministry), they expect a relationship, not a transaction.”
The “ethos” of these generational cohorts has changed! We are living in the Social Era and, today, that means they expect a relationship. This new ethos has firmly taken hold in the boomer, Gen-X and Millennial generational cohorts.
Commonly used Definition of Ethos- the fundamental character or spirit of a culture; the underlying sentiment that informs the beliefs, customs or practices of a group or society; dominant assumptions of a people or period.
Nilofer Merchant isn’t talking about your grandparents . . . she is talking about you and me.
Drip, Drip, Drip.
~ Mike
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Posted by Mike Browne at 12:30 AM
BIG’s Blog: Evolve or Die? – Re-posted with permission
Wednesday, January 8, 2014
The “heart” of successful fundraising is still relationship.
When I talk to my 80-something mother about the “relationship” she has with the different organizations she supports, and I have essentially the same conversation about the “relationship” my 50-something wife has with the organizations she and I support, I quickly understand that each of their definitions of “relationship” is very different.
With my wife, relationship speaks to whom she knows, where they are working and what they are doing. Whereas with my mother, relationship speaks to the story or narrative she understands about the organization built up over decades.
My mother’s “know” is knowledge, the story, the narrative. No doubt the product of the mass communications paradigm we are quickly exiting.
My wife’s “know” is much more intimate and tied to the people and a particular mission and, yes, is driven by online communications.
We are quickly coming to a time when large monolithic nonprofit organizations like CARE, the Red Cross, and the American Cancer Society (and I chose these organizations because they are very large) are going to be under pressure to connect with new, younger generations of potential supporters in a much more intimate and personal way. And, to their credit, I am starting to see some signs of that move. For instance, following disasters, texting $10 has been very successful for the Red Cross, but the test will be how they follow up and develop these one-time donors into annual supporters … even without a disaster. That will take care and nurturing of the relationship.
It isn’t that my mother’s generation was easy and younger generations (beginning with the Baby Boomers) are hard. Rather, I think it’s more that younger generations are very different in what they look for and expect from the organizations they support today.
It isn’t harder vs. easier … they are just different.
Making a determination of “hard” versus “easy” is really more a reflection on what we know … our experience.
But this much is clear . . . going forward, relationship is going to be defined in a more intimate and personal way.
Drip, Drip, Drip.
-Mike
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BIG’s Blog: We Have Moved … Online (Re-posted, with permission)
Wednesday, March 27, 2013
BIG’s Blog: We Have Moved … Online
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True Hospitality (Re-posted from the Henri Nouwen Society blog)
Strip away the religious aspect of this post, based on the teachings of the late Henri Nouwen and one can see the kernel of truth upon which all successful fundraising is based: RELATIONSHIPS. My thanks to the Henri Nouwen Society for this insightful meditation…
Daily Meditation: March 6, 2013
True Hospitality
Every good relationship between two or more people, whether it is friendship, marriage, or community, creates space where strangers can enter and become friends. Good relationships are hospitable. When we enter into a home and feel warmly welcomed, we will soon realise that the love among those who live in that home is what makes that welcome possible.
When there is conflict in the home, the guest is soon forced to choose sides. “Are you for him or for her?” “Do you agree with them or with us?” “Do you like him more than you do me?” These questions prevent true hospitality – that is, an opportunity for the stranger to feel safe and discover his or her own gifts. Hospitality is more than an expression of love for the guest. It is also and foremost an expression of love between the hosts.
Text excerpts taken from Bread for the Journey, by Henri J.M. Nouwen , © 1997 HarperSanFrancisco. All Scripture from The Jerusalem Bible ©1966, 1967, and 1968 Darton, Longman & Todd and Doubleday & Co. Inc. Photo by V. Dobson.